A ORAL HISTORY ON CHRISTAL SANCHEZ BY FANTA BAGAYOKO
As the music played on the radio I was on my bed dancing to the music when I I-M'D Christal and wrote: my fault. is he sleep yet??? I waited 5 minutes but still no I-M back so I lay down just listen to the music as my head bob back and forth. I guess I was about to doze off when I heard the song Knock You Down: "Sometimes love comes around. Love comes around love comes around, and it knocks you down. Just get back up When it knocks you down(Knocks you down)". My phone almost rang the second time and I see the caller ID says Christal and I immediately spring up and answer. I looked at the time and saw that it was 10:21.
"Hello" I sound tired but excited that she called. She answered hi but her hi didn't seem cheerful like her smile usually shows....it was more like a gloomy funeral day. I then asked her how she was and was the baby sleep."I feel crappy and hes okay hes on my chest and hes dosing off" she says with a little more excitement at the dosing off part.
"okay lets gets started then. How do you feel about teen pregnancy and why?" I said. "I don't know um...I feel that its something.... if your hoping in bed with people and you get pregnant then its your responsibility".
How do you feel about abortions and why? I said. "I Personally don't like abortions... they're gonna kill someone else that didn't even get a chance to live to see to see the world". she sounded serious and you could hear the face expression changing from tired to angry.
"Do you feel that girls around age 14 should be getting pregnant and...before i could even finish my sentence she interrupted "No that's mad young. That's really young. If your not ready then you shouldn't be in bed with someone...at all".
"okii dokii now as a young mother would you regret being pregnant and why?" i asked. She hesitated but finally said "Its not something to regret cause its like your love for the child grows over the years but I'm not saying get pregnant. I recommend not even getting in the bed unless your gonna fall asleep". We both started laughing but then I had to end it because I had to get back on my business flow.
"Do you know anyone who was pressured to early?" I said this as if I was a news reporter.She must have seem to catch my little joke because she giggled but managed to get her words out. "umm... yea the person thought she deserved it(having sex to early) at the time but then realized that she really didn't deserve it". She sounded kind of weird like she was trying not to reveal something. She yawns which obviously meant she was tired.
"Do you know anyone who was pressured into having sex?" I read off the paper slowly like she was mentally stable." Yea I do...because some guys don't understand the word no... they just block that word from their minds". She says with emphasize on the no.
"What is one thing you would want other young mothers to know about you?"."Well if your going to open your legs to do it then if your pregnant then its your consequence. Your choosing to do it or not. Its like killing one of your family members or friends. Its murder". then excitedly she says " Hes finally asleep".

"What is one accomplishment you are proud of?" "Staying in school because most people think that ALL young mothers drop out". In my mind I felt that she was a great role model for all young mothers.
"Do you feel like you made a right decision in having a baby and why?" " Yes well it wasn't planned and it was better for me to have it instead of killing it".
"How do you feel about your responsibilities of having a baby and why?" "Well you have to find someone to baby sit him for when you have to go to a school activity or when you have to go to school and stuff like that. When you get home your already exhausted but you have responsibilities to do and you still have to take care of YOUR baby"
"How would you rank your responsibilities from 1 to 10 as a young mother and why?" " A 5 because your tired and don't wanna do anything but when you see the smile and learning you become happy and you know that you made a good decision"
"Would you recommend having a baby if your already pregnant and why?" " Have it because you cant kill it I recommend not getting pregnant at all...well unless your ready"
"Did you feel isolated from other teens when you were pregnant? Why did you feel isolated" "Ummm...crap...well did I...dang....I didn't feel isolated.I felt like I wasn't the first or the last to get pregnant in that school. If felt like I was just fat".
"Is it hard being a young mother and going to school?" "yeah like i said before babysitting and not having a social life like you did before you got pregnant. Sometimes you wanna have fun but then remember that you have other responsibilities that other teens don't have."
I yawned and said : Okay Christal were done here good night and again thank you so much" "its okay. bye" "bye". We both hung up as I smiled because I had finally finished the interview.
